Friday, July 13, 2012

Another Meeting? I'll Just Listen and Work Through it.

This used to be my "Modus Operandi".  I would bring my laptop to meetings, and read emails, or write code.  I would dial-in to meetings when possible so that I could focus on my work, while listening in.

Last week, I posted a blog about being present in all thing we do.  In that vein, I've learned something from my years working from home.  Working through meetings is not an effective use of my time.

I know this goes against a lot of peoples actions today.  I can't tell you how many people I know that work through meetings.  I work in a mobile phone company.  Most people divide their attention half between the meeting, and their devices.  I'll admit it, I even still get caught up in it too.  I have more meetings than I can handle, and I often feel like I wouldn't get any work done if I attend (mentally attend) them all.

Recently, I've also been getting feedback about how terrible our meetings can be.  I have one particular meeting that tends to be completely unfocused.  It's a scheduled meeting, has agenda, and nearly everyone on it divides their time.  I've been frustrated with it, and one of my co-workers expressed similar feelings "There is no communication!",  "No-one is listening!".   Another person said "It drives me nuts when I have to repeat myself because no-one heard what I said the first time".

So I decided to try an experiment.  When I'm faced with this type of meeting, not mine to drive or organize, I would force myself to be present.  I force myself by taking meeting notes, and sharing them back to the invitees.

I used to hate taking notes.  In college, I always felt it distracted me from the content of the lecture or meeting.  I still agree with that sentiment.  But only if the meeting is well attended and everyone is engaged.  In a well run, well attended, and engaged meeting the information moves quickly, and it's very difficult to take notes for me.   However, these meetings are neither well run, nor well attended.

Why does this help?   First taking notes forces me to be present.  By writing down the comments, I'm forced to engage and ask questions about what I didn't understand.   There tend to be dead air times in the meetings, so there is plenty of time to write, digest, and comment.   Just asking questions, can engage more people and improve the meeting.

Second, following up with the meeting notes after the meeting serves two purposes.   It allows the attendees to validate your understanding of what was said or decided.   I'm always surprised by how often what seemed like firm understanding on the phone, was not that at all when written down.

Scheduling meetings where everyone can attend is challenging in globally spaced work environments.   I sometimes get invited to meetings at 5am or 6am, or late into the evening.  I might be able to attend these on occasion, but it doesn't fit my life to do it regularly.  

"How can I be expected to stay engaged if my meetings are not during business hours, and no-one shares what was discussed?" - remote worker

The meeting notes must be sent to the invitees of the meeting, not just those that attended.  This has broad consequences.   First, you get feedback from those who may not have been able to attend.   But even more importantly, it gives the secondary members a way to be informed without attending every meeting on their schedules.  This frees people up to avoid some meetings and focus on specific work items.

If you organize a meeting with people in other time zones, there is nothing more important than keeping good notes and delivering them in a timely way to everyone invited.  You can't expect your meeting time to work for everyone, so make certain that you include them this way.

Finding work patterns like this is extremely important for those of us that work from home.  I mentioned in Seven Ways to be Productive in Your Home, that you have to "be visible", "stay relevant", and "connect with coworkers".  Being engaged in your meetings, and producing meeting notes serves those three purposes.  You are visible through your engagement, and questions.  You're relevant because you have made yourself a key part of the information flow.  And you are connecting with your co-workers because you've saved them time by freeing them to work on other tasks.

Everybody wins!  Isn't that the goal?

Friday, July 6, 2012

You're Lucky to be Here. So, be Here.

I'm lucky to be alive, and well today; not in a hospital bed somewhere or worse.  The driver of a pickup truck was not paying attention, and nearly changed that for a friend and I.

Yesterday was one of those rare glorious sunny days in the northwest that we all live for.  The sun shining, bright blue sky, and sunny weather.   On those days, Mt. Rainier, Baker, and the Olympics all beam down on us from heavenly reaches.   They remind us of the splendid beauty that surrounds us, but is usually masked in haze.  

I was walking back from lunch with my friend.  We were deep in conversation, drinking in the day.  The area near my office is suburban.  Most of the roads are multi-lane arterials.  Drivers drop in parking lots quickly, and inject themselves back into the flow.   

John was leading me slightly on the sidewalk, passing in front of a big F150 pickup truck.  I remember it was a commercial vehicle.  Painted in bright colors, with marketing terms all over it; some sort of water or beverage service I think.   Just as I was in front of the bumper, and John was directly in front of the truck, he started to move.

I looked up and realized he wasn’t even looking at us, his head turned up the road looking for traffic.   The bumper nudged me, and I yelled “HEY!!!!  WHOA!!!”, as I jumped back.  The truck was chasing me as the wheels were turned into me.  John jumped, but he was directly in front of the truck.  He had no where to go but into the street.  

John yelled “HEY!!! HEY!!!”, and jumped again, as the truck accelerated and pushed him further.  I was still leaping backward on the sidewalk, but my eyes were on him.  I knew he had no chance of escaping that truck's huge bumper and off-road tires.   He leaped again, now fully standing in the middle of traffic.

At the last possible moment, the driver turned his head, oblivious to where he was going.  He saw John leaping one more hop backward, now nearly into the second lane of traffic.  He slammed on the brakes, and avoided pushing him any further.

My heart was racing, and visions of ambulances, broken bones, and fateful impacts still were flitting through my mind.  I should have been screaming “WHAT THE H#!! WERE THINKING!”, but I was speechless.  I knew what he was thinking:  nothing related to driving.  

In life we have to remind ourselves to stay focused.  Even in the most mundane things, the consequences of our actions can be dire.  

The same thing applies in our work, in our home, parenting, and life.   We have so many distractions in our lives, but nothing is ever as important as what you are doing right now.  Pay attention to the here and now.  Make time to do the distractions when you can focus on them alone.

The people around you will notice the difference.  You never know, you just might save a life.

Friday, June 29, 2012

Respect is Earned

One of the hardest lessons to teach our children is earning and giving respect.  Respect is a complex idea, and true respect is empathy, understanding, and forethought of consequences.

What do I mean by "true respect"?  There is basic respectfulness that we teach our children.  "You will respect your teacher."  "Show some respect to your Grandmother."  But, these are as much an effort in repetition and fear for consequences.

Real respect, however, is individual, and it is earned through action.  The first person in my life that I had a real respect for was my Grandfather.

I remember staying with my grandparents once when was I still in elementary school.  I must have been in 5th or 6th grade because I knew a lot of kids that were in middle school and lived near them.

My grandparents lived near a state park.  I would spend a lot of time riding my bicycle around in the park.  I would race through the camping loops, trying to go as fast as my tires would hold me around the corners.  They are some of my best childhood memories.

One day I was doing just that, and I came up to a group of older kids that I knew.  I didn't know them well, but I stopped to say hi.  Middle school is an awkward age, and one of them thought he could be cool by picking on me.  He was nice for a couple minutes, then started laughing and came over and punched me and knocked me off my bike.

I was furious, I jumped up and threw my bike at them, but they were already far out of reach.  Laughing and running on to other escapades.

I headed back to my grandparents house, and I told them what happened.  I remember how protective my grandpa got.  He turned me right back around and started walking the park with me.  We probably spent an hour walking around looking for those kids.

I have no idea what he would have done if we found them.  Looking back, I know he was a gentle spirit.  He wanted me to know I was safe, and that he would back me up.  It worked, and I was able to keep playing just like I always had.

That walk, and I'm sure the words that we shared, I will remember all my life.  My grandpa's action, and caring, taught me a respect for him that I would never get from repeated words of "respect your elders".

So now, I teach my kids to respect the people around them.  But I also try to teach them to earn my respect.  I try to teach them what their teachers, mom, and grandparents do that has earned their respect.

I also carry this to my own life.  I will listen and follow my leaders at work.  But I let them earn my respect.  I observe the actions of those around me and I choose who will get it.  I try to act in a way that will earn the respect of those around me too.

True respect is part of relationship building, and a component of trust.  If you want to be successful in business, and life, act in a way that will earn the respect of those around you.  Choose who you deal with based on who you trust and respect.  That kind of relationship is priceless.

Saturday, June 23, 2012

Success and Succession

Over a decade ago, I worked for a company that had a great success story.  Airborne Express had started out flying flowers express around the country.  Competition was tough, but the the company had two distinct leaders that helped to bring the company into the #3 package delivery service in the United States.

It took "the Bobs" as we liked to call them a lifetime to grow the company to that successful position.  Margins are small, and competition is tight in that atmosphere, so the company stayed lean to find profits where they could.

As the founders aged, and new leaders began to emerge, that tight vision and direction began to waver. The economy became tight, and new technology was putting pressure on express delivery service (primarily letters).

"The Bobs" retired, and a new company president took over.  Management changes and vision changes  were rampant.  Rumours of buy-out deals seemed to come almost weekly.  The company profits turned to losses, and projects were faltering.

Finally, it was announced:  DHL would be "merging" with Airborne Express.

The interesting thing to notice is that Airborne Express had reinvented itself multiple times in it's history.  It had adapted to the times and maintained profits, even growth, under trying circumstances.  It transitioned from flower delivery to cargo and freight for example.  Then from freight to express delivery.

"The Bobs" had success with Airborne Express.  Where "the Bobs" really missed an opportunity was in succession.  They had a formula that was working.  But they hadn't taught anyone to how to use it.

In the coming 10 to 15 years, succession is going to be a key factor in success for U.S. companies.  The baby boomer population has the vast majority of leadership roles in our economy today.  Take a look around your office, and ask yourself, how many of your leaders will be retired in the next decade?   Are there enough of your younger employees being groomed to take their place?

If you want to see your company successful 10, 15, or 20 years from now.  It's time to start thinking about who will be leading it now.  Don't wait until you have one foot out the door.  Start teaching and mentoring now.


Tim


Tuesday, June 19, 2012

Wisdom

Knowledge is committing facts to memory.
Wisdom is incorporating facts in action.

Friday, June 15, 2012

Embrace the Chaos

Yahooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The Nichols family is officially a family of six this week, with the final adoption of our daughter Zarri!  Welcome to the family sweet girl :)

Some of you may know that our family motto has become "Embrace the Chaos".  I like to tweak it at times to "Deny the Chaos", but somehow that doesn't usually work so well.

Tuesday morning at 11:00am this week was our court date for Zarri's adoption.  On Monday at 4:30, we received a phone call from our lawyer that they still didn't have all the paperwork from the state to make it happen.  Chaos ensued....

This is what our morning looked like:

  • 6:30am: Girls are awake and running up and down the hallway.  Izzy is refusing to go potty (can you see where this is going?)
  • 7:00am:  Naomi leaves to do a training ride (She is a tri-athlete, did I mention that?  Go Nom!)
  • 7:30am: I'm making breakfast, and leaving voicemails for everyone I know at DSHS, and our adoption agency.
    • At some point in here I'm cleaning up a wet floor and helping Izzy change clothes
  • 8:00am: Getting kids dressed.  Zarri has been in the bathroom for about 20 minutes (this is pretty normal), and Izzy is running through the house naked and dancing.  
  • 8:30am: All kids are dressed.   :)
  • 8:33am: Zarri has decided to change, her and Izzy have to have matching outfits for court.
  • 8:35am: Zarri and Izzy have no matching shirts.  Tantrums ensue.
  • 8:40am:  I notice that Gray's clothes are actually pajamas, and not in such good shape.  Suggest another option......
  • 8:45am:  Restarting phone call rounds to the state.  Continued no response
  • 9:00am: Nom is home and reading books to the boys  (Chaos? What Chaos?  I see no Chaos.)
  • 9:15am:  Call from the lawyer to confirm they still have no paperwork, and our lawyer needs to leave by around 10:00am
  • 9:20am: I am not on full attention phone calls.  I have calls on hold, calls on my cell, and on our house number.  I have called supervisors, managers, and old case workers.  
  • 9:25am: Considering looking up the number of the DSHS state director :)
  • 9:30am: Connor has decided he's not going to the adoption.  Blood pressure rising.....
  •   Embracing the chaos......
  • 9:35am:  Considering looking up the Governor Gregoire's number
  • 9:40am:  Izzy and Zarri have matching outfits.  So cute.   Gray is still in Pajamas....
  • 9:45am:  A call from our DSHS worker, a DSHS manager, and our adoption agency each separately saying they have our paperwork and have e-mailed it.
  • 9:47am: I recieve a copy of the paperwork, and forward it to the lawyer.   Gray seems to be in something like clothes.  Connor is in full on refusal mode now.
  • 9:50am:  A call from our lawyer confirming that she has recieved all four copies of our paperwork.  We are a go.
  • 9:55am:  Getting everyone in the car.  Connor is laying on the floor, determined.
  • 9:57am:  We are all in the car, Connor relents.
  • 10:00am:  Driving down the road
  • 10:01am:  Chaos embraced.

The chaos always involves either small children doing what small children do, or ridiculously busy scheduling logistics, or large numbers of unexpected life events, or mommy and daddy's sleep deprived brain malfunctions.  Most days, it is some combination of all the above. ;)

Managing our daily lives makes going to work seem like a cake walk some days.  In the end everything tends to come together.  The same usually happens in other parts of our lives.  On the occasions that it doesn't, it's more chaos.  Afterall, what's a little more :).

The bottom line is:  Don't sweat the small stuff.  We all get spun up on the nitty gritty details of daily life.  When it doesn't go as planned, our blood pressure rises along with anxiety.

Chaos is a regular part of life.  Embrace it.  You'll be happier for it, and others around you will think you've got it together.  (No need to correct them on that, haha! )

'Til next week....

Friday, June 8, 2012

Game Changing Workforce

I watched "Moneyball" recently.  The Oakland A's GM, Billy Beans, and his staff turned the game of baseball upside down by thinking outside the box.  The rest of the league had to follow suit, or continue to lose to those who did.
 
Do you ever think about what the next big revolution will be in your industry?  In the last century, we've had many revolutions or ages that have turned the world upside down.  The atomic age, jet age, space age, and now the information age to name a few.

What if you, or your company, could be among the early adopters?  Could you change your position with the competition?

What if you could do everything you do today, but significantly cut, or eliminate the cost of your physical offices?  Where would you put those lease, power, and maintenance costs if they were released?

Now, add tax incentives for that making effort.  Would you have an edge over your competition?

Those are exactly the benefits that await the first companies to truly adopt the concept of a distributed workforce.  There has been massive adoption of residential high speed internet access, voip phones, video conferencing, and collaborative tools like Webex.  Today, the market is prime for a company to embrace 100% work from home policies.

As with any edgy move, there are some hurdles to overcome, and some lessons to be learned.  Billy Beans had a slump before he starting winning games too:
  • Remote collaboration requires new skill sets.  Managers will need to learn how to support employees in learning these skills, and the skills they need to keep everyone engaged from afar.
  • Culture shift:  There needs to be a shift toward work accountability over butts in seats and hours worked.  Moving people to a home office provides them with greater freedom to manage their own time.  With that freedom comes responsibility.  Rather than trying to manage and motivate in traditional ways, we need to hold those same people accountable for their assigned tasks, and ability to collaborate.
  • Adoption of technology:  Everyone needs to be trained on the collaboration tools, and use them.  No exceptions.
  • Time management:  This is a major problem in our workforce today by my account.  Management does the majority of time management, and individuals clock in and clock out.  This skill needs to be delegated to each individual.  Everyone can manage their own time if given the training and motivation.
For companies that take this on, there will surely be some bumps in the road.  But now let's consider what you get out of it:
  • Facilities costs:  Every person that does not need to come in to the office saves physical space, and support costs.  Depending on your location, this can be extremely expensive.
  • Ecology:  Let's face it.  I think we all know that we'd be better off with fewer cars on the road.  
  • Tax Incentives:  In some states, there are business tax incentives for every employee that works from home.  This incentive is specifically to help reduce traffic congestion and emissions.  
  • Higher efficiency:  Even for a person with a 20 minute commute, you are cutting 40 minutes of wasted time out of every day.  Assuming a 16 hour wakeful day, that's a 4% increase in valuable time every day.  Atleast some of that time will probably be spent working.
  • Fewer distractions:  Given a good time management skills, and some training, working from home presents a much more focused environment.  This is heavily dependent on good policies, and support for remote employees.
  • Higher morale:  More time at home with families, friends, etc..  is a good thing
  • More independent, well rounded employees:  Successful home workers require self directed mind sets.  The skills learned to do this successfully will feed into other aspects of work and life.
Will your company be a trailblazer, and reap the benefits of competitive advantage?  The Oakland A's only had a short advantage from rethinking baseball.  After everyone else adopted their methods, the advantage was gone.  The same will be true in business.

Do you want an edge over your competition?  Consider the benefits above.  Are you up to the challenge?


Friday, June 1, 2012

Trouser Trouble . . .

This story is one more reason why I love working from home.

Every Thursday morning I roll myself out of bed at 4:30am and get ready for my longest day of the week.  Thursdays are my one day of the week to commute to Bellevue.  I leave home at 5:30am, don my motorcycle gear, and trek out for the 6:20am ferry boat.  I arrive at  my desk just before 7:30.

I'm kind of a freak of nature.  Most of the people I work with roll in somewhere around 9am or later, bleary eyed, and looking for coffee.  By that time of day, I'm looking for a mid morning snack.  I usually get some quiet productive time before "stuff" starts to hit the fan.

One particularly rainy Thursday, I was very happy to have that quiet morning time.

I mentioned that I donned my motorcycle gear.  One thing you have to know about rain gear: It can't be trusted.  Like a playground bully with a water balloon: it lulls you into a false sense of confidence, and then BAM!; you're sopping wet, and everyone's looking at you funny.  This is why I always keep an extra pair of pants on my bike.  You never know...

And so it was that Thursday morning.  I had a nice ride to the ferry and trudged up for my usual nap across the water.  The weather was so nice up to then that I didn't even look outside when I headed back down to my bike.

I strapped on my helmet; put on my gloves; and mounted up, ready charge into a new day.  It was around then that I looked outside.  The front of the ferry was drenched.  Cars were running their wipers.  And the riders at the very front of the boat were waiting under cover until the last minute.  Mother nature's heartless ambivalence at work.

No problem.  My rain gear is waterproof.  I've been riding for months in the rain with no problems.  I have extra pants in my bag.  Nothing to worry about... Off I go.  It's only a few miles to Bellevue.

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Wow.  This is some pretty hard rain...  Did I put those extra pants back in the bag???
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My legs are colder than usual.  Meh, can't be wet.  It just cold...  Hmm...  That cold feeling is spreading..
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Mother nature and my raingear have conspired against me.
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Sigh, it's too late to turn around now.

When I got to work, I quickly confirmed that, yes, I did indeed forget to put my extra pants in the bag.  Once inside, I confirmed again that yes, indeed my rain gear had leaked.

I am convinced now the First Gear hires playground bullies to design rain gear.  Job requirements include past experience with water balloons.  I've never had rain gear leak on my neck.  Never on my knee, or my arms.  There is only one place that a bully will target a water balloon.  Maximum humiliation, square between the legs.

I'm at work now.  Luckily I'm the only person there.  I have no idea how long it will take for my pants to dry, or if there will be a water stain.  The only thing I can do is stuff my pants and my chair with paper towels and hope I dry out before anyone shows up.

My desk sits right next to the main door.  I listen as people slowly file in.  Several people pass by without stopping to say hi.

Then I hear someone coming around the cube wall.  I'm still sitting on a pile of paper towels.  This isn't pretty ...

Whew.  It's another bike rider.  One brief explanation, a few laughs, and a brief uncomfortable moment and I'm beyond any major humiliation.

Luckily I dried out, and sent the towels to the trash can before any other embarrassment happened.  I write "Buy extra rain gear; put extra pants in bike bags" in about twelve different places so I don't forget (Like I'm gonna forget, ha).

I've survived another day of commuting, and it's a week back at home before I need to do it again.

I love my work from home days :)




Friday, May 25, 2012

Slow Down the Idea Train ...

And let your other people get on.

I am so lucky to be surrounded by brilliant people.   I find them everywhere: at work, in clubs, and especially in my family. Everyone around me is overflowing with new ideas.

My son Connor is full of great ideas.  Lately the kids have been playing Skylanders on the Wii.   Connor is the leader of the pack.

When Gray or Zarri are playing, Connor sits backs and "directs".
   "Gray,  go left and get those coins."
   "Zarri, shoot that green guy."

 But when they don't act on his ideas quick enough it becomes:
  "Here Gray, let me do it." At the same time, he is wrestling the controllers out his hands.

  This invariably ends with crying, and the end of all their time on the Wii.

  Connor is breaking a major rule of ideas: not getting buy-in.   His idea is probably great, and helpful for everyone, but when he discounts his siblings it doesn't matter.

Turning ideas into reality is hard. Ideas are like children; it takes a village to raise them.

  I see the same thing in business and the workplace.  Sometimes when we have brilliant ideas, we assume everyone will instantly see their merit, and we charge forward.

  Our brilliant ideas often have cascading effects when we implement them.   The best ideas cause  change, and change is scary.  It may change a persons responsibility, remove long standing methods, involve risk, or create a big surge of work.

  The first step to any new idea is to sell the idea to the key people it affects.  If those people can see your vision, then they will start looking for how to overcome obstacles, rather than identifying them.

   The next step is to include those people in planning the execution. Turning an idea to reality takes hard work and detailed thought.  Including your peers in the planning will lighten the load and ensure you haven't missed something.

  Lastly, let the idea grow.   Once you have buy in, the idea will take a life of its own.  It's no longer yours. It belongs to the team, so let them shape it with your vision.  The work and ideas they build are the tracks that lead to your destination.  Don't derail it.

  Think of your ideas like a destination. Not everyone is going to board your train.  But, if you announce the destination and give people time to board, you might be surprised by the steam you can build.







Friday, May 18, 2012

7 Ways to Be Productive in Your Home Office


I've been working out of my home either part-time, or full-time for the bulk of my career now.  Honestly, I've had my ups and downs with it.  There are some pitfalls to working at home, and some simple ways to avoid the dangers.

These seven tips have helped me to become an effective remote worker.  I've learned them through years of hard knocks and observation: 
  1. Dedicate Your Space  - I started out working from home full-time when my oldest son was first born.  We lived in a 80+ year old home with hardwood floors, plaster walls, and zero insulation.   Working out of a spare bedroom, I spent most of my days on conference calls.

    I realized I wasn't isolated enough when my conference call co-workers would ask "Is your baby OK?".  Connor was "Colic-y" :)

    We moved about six months later, and I built an office in my backyard.  I wouldn't say that everyone needs to do the same, but having a quiet, dedicated space makes me seem more professional, and helps to minimize the distractions.
  2. Manage Your Time Proactively - This leads me to time management.  I have always been naturally spontaneous.  I enjoy reacting to the moment and acting on it.

    When I'm working, I've learned that I have to plan my day, inject a few work breaks, and stay focused.

    If I don't, this is becomes my days schedule:
    • Child #1: "Dad, where's my baseball mitt?"
    • Self: "I have time to read the news"
    • Child #2: "Daddy, can I play on the Wii?"
    • Wife #1 (of 1 :) ): "Tim, can you check the car seat?  It seems loose."
    • Self: Personal Email
    • Child #3: "Ummmmm......   Daaaaaddddyy.......   Ummmmmmmm......  Welllllllll............", etc...
    • Self: Hey why did Pandora stop playing,  I better fix that....
    • Child #4: Bursts into room, does a dance and climbs in my lap
    • Cat #1: Paws at my face until I throw her out.
    • Self: Oooh .... Shiny thing......
    • Wash, Rinse, Repeat.....

    Take some time to study the masters of time management.  I personally have found these two to be useful:
    • "Seven Habits of Highly Effective People" Steven Covey
    • "Getting Things Done": David Allen

  3. Be Visible  - A short time after taking a new postion (working from home), my manager once said to me:
        "Tim, I've had several people come to me and ask if anyone has filled your position."
        I asked, "What do you mean?"
        "I mean they don't know your there.", he said.

    It's easy to disappear from everyone's radar when you work from home.   As a remote worker, you have to learn to promote yourself.

    Some tips and ideas to be more visible:
    • Be specific about what you have worked on during team meetings.  Don't waste time, but recognize that most people won't have any idea what you've done if you don't tell them.
    • Actively participate in email discussions.  This is your opportunity to be on the same playing field as your co-workers.
    • Pick up the phone and call people when you have questions.  This is a big one.  If you would have yelled over a cube wall, or walked down the hall, then you should definitely pick up the phone.
    • Call or email everyone who should be interacting with you regularly, just to let them know you're there and available.
  4. Connect With Co-Workers  - Manager in team meeting:  "So project X is underway, and the CEO has his eyes on it.  How is it going?"
      [You ask yourself: "What is project X, I've never heard of it"]
    Team mates: "It's going great.  We've got the requirements defined, and we're ready for Tim to do his part."
      [Huh??]
    I ask: "I'm sorry, but can you tell me what Project X is again?"

    If you work remotely as part of a group that is usually in the office, you've probably felt left out at some point or another.

    Replace the water cooler talk with regular conversations over the phone, or with instant messenger.  A lot of information moves about in an office through informal conversation.  Find excuses to pick up the phone or chat with each of your co-workers regularly.  I suggest at least weekly, if not more.
  5. Make Time for Face Time  - In the end, nothing beats a face to face conversation.  If possible, I try to find a way into the office weekly.  I schedule team meetings during that day so we can all connect, and I generally don't plan on getting a lot of technical work done on that day.  Instead I focus on decision making, collaboration, and relationships.

    If you can't make weekly work, then schedule quarterly visits, or arrange for video conferences.

    Connecting a face to a name is a key part of building trust in relationships.
  6. Stay Relevant  - Working at home, you will get left out of the loop at times.  You'll miss conversations, and people won't understand, or even notice that you don't know about them.

    One struggle with being at home, is finding ways to stay "in the know" without those conversations.

    As a home worker, you need to become a leader of ideas and projects.  If you're in charge, you will always be in the know.  People will look to you for information, and that will keep you relevant.

    When you're not in charge, inject yourself into conversations when possible.  Be on the alert for changes that you may not have been informed of.  Then, contact someone who does to fill you in.

    Tip:  Find an insider.  Build or leverage a relationship with a team-mate, or even your boss to seek out this information and keep you informed.
  7. Build an External Social Network  - Many people build their friendships and social status on the relationships they have at work.  When you're working at home, those opportunities disappear.

    I highly recommend reaching out in your community and building personal and professional relationships independent of your workplace.  This gives you better life balance, confidence, and a broad network/safety net if your work environment changes for the worse, or you lose your job.

    I personally joined Rotary, and Toastmasters.  I identify strongly with the ideals of Rotary, and I find kinship with the people there.   Toastmasters has helped me to grow professionally.  It given me a lot of tools to accomplish many of the previous items (Staying relevant, Being visibly, etc...)

    Other people may connect with their church, with intramural sports, local government, etc.   Whatever you do, you will need a social outlet.  Work won't fill this need when you work out of your home.

Friday, May 11, 2012

How to Change the World

I went to "We are Family Day" at the Safeco Field last weekend.  We go every year because our family belongs to two groups that purchase tickets up in the nose bleed sections:  Kitsap Adoption Group, and Kitsap Foster Care Association.

Sitting in the stands I realized I was among people that were changing the world.  People who committed to something, and are now changing the world through subtle, everyday choices.  Those choices impact the lives of one (or two or three .. or four) children at a time.

I am proud to be a part of that.
  • ‘Never doubt that a small, group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.’

Margaret Mead has it right.  We all change the world every day.  Your actions, no matter how small, have ripple effects that change everyone around you.   Chaos theory suggests that a butterfly's wings can cause a storm around the world.  Your actions can do the same.

If you want to achieve something, aim high.  You can change the world.  In fact, you already do.  The challenge is to change it for the better. That takes thought, commitment, and inspiration.

How do you measure your success?  When I set out to do something, I want it to have a lasting effect.  That is success to me; knowing I made a difference.

How will you change the world?  I challenge you to commit to one thing that will make a difference.  Think about what actions you will take to achieve it.  Find what inspires you so that you can remain committed.

Make your choices every day to have an impact.  Take risks.  Be thoughtul.  Care about people, and your impact on them.  When you do, you will change the world for the better.

Finally, post a comment, here, Facebook, or wherever about what you commit to.  Writing it down will help you to sustain it.  Own that change, and make it happen.

Friday, May 4, 2012

Staying focused at home

Does this conversation sound familiar?

"That's really great that you get to work from home Tim.  I could never do that."

"Sure, I love working from home.  Why do you think you could never do it?"

"Every time I've tried to work from home I end up doing something else.  Laundry, dishes, playing with the kids, whatever.  There are just too many distractions."

The truth is: this can be a real problem when working from home.  But it's not a new problem, and it's not unique to working out of the home.  Most professionals face it at some point or another.  They reach a point where they are responsible for their own priorities, managing their own time, and they start to lose day to day focus.

Going in to an office daily has two natural effects that help us to stay focused in our work.  The first one is the more obvious point:  You are nearby to your boss or coworkers, and there is some fear of being caught off-task.  This seems sensible on the surface, but in reality how much do you really see your boss when you're in the office?  Probably not much.  And how many of your co-workers have you caught playing solitaire or surfing Google?  In many cases, alot.

The more important effect is less obvious, but thankfully we can reproduce in our homes.  What I'm talking about is the effect of context.  Essentially, we train ourselves to think and work in specific ways based on our surroundings:

  • When you enter a restaurant, you begin to feel hungry.
  • When you smell a certain perfume, you are reminded of a past flame.
  • When the TV or radio are on, you are compelled to watch or listen.
Context is a major part of how we progress through our day.  Our brains are hardwired to translate our surroundings into matching thoughts and actions.   We train ourselves to attach specific surroundings to specific actions. 

The problem is that we can also introduce context that is counter to our goals.  For example:  A common cause of sleep problems is working or studying in bed.  This confuses our sense of context, and our brain stops identifying the bed as a place to sleep.

Back to comparing a workplace.  When we go to an office to work, we have clearly defined context.  Our brains are trained to focus on work while in that location, and distractions are kept away.

We can reproduce this in our home by creating a dedicated workspace.  Find a quiet part of your home, and use it for work, and work alone.  Don't do your bills there, or play video games after the work day in that location.  Find another place for those activities.

If you control your surroundings in a dedicated workspace, and then limit your time there to work alone,  you'll find yourself getting more done before you know it.   When you need a break, get up and walk away to another part of the house.  When you come back, get right back to work.  You'll find your worktime focus will be as good or better than in your old "cube-o-rama".



Tuesday, May 1, 2012

Welcome Back!

Sometimes we have to renew and refresh.  I was looking through some of my old works and realized it was time for fresh look on this blog.

I have some great ideas for topics to share here.  I hope you enjoy them.